Chocolate plays this song for me occasionally.. I would guess it’s on one of those rare days that I do not get on his nerves 🤷🏽‍♀️ lol Besides his face, the thing that makes me smile every day is when I go upstairs to go to bed and the light on my nightsand is turned… Read More This Is Why I love You

Afflictions Part 2 What was I going to do about it? Would I wallow in self-pity and feel like less than a woman for not being able to do things with natural progression. YES!.. actually Hell YES! I gave myself a couple of days before I dried my tears and lifted my head back up… Read More Afflictions Continued..

One morning a couple of weekends ago I heard a Pastor on the radio say “your afflictions are not to make you weak, they’re to make you strong!” and I thought “WOW!” When we’re in the midst of our afflictions we are certainly not in the mindset of believing that we will be stronger because… Read More Afflictions

This post is for someone that’s dealing with a broken heart tonight. “They say that all wounds heal over time But why does it feel like I could die…. Bury my heart…” I think pretty much all of us have entered into relationships with hopes & dreams of it being amazing, only to be let… Read More Bury My Heart

Have you ever sat alone in a room, feeling lost and weighing options of a tough or life-changing decision you need to make, and you sit contemplating, afraid of disappointing God with your decision? If not, this post is not for you! In this song Yolanda Adams brings us a heartfelt plea that we all… Read More Open My Heart

So, Thursday was ole girl’s birthday! I could sum her up simply by saying mother of 6, grandmother of 10. That’s more than enough credit for any one person! My mother; the outspoken voice to my shyness, the diva to my simplicity, the the crazy to my calm spirit, you all get it.. If you… Read More Mama

So Chocolate and I were extremely blessed to have met when we were so young and even though we have had our share of ups and downs we still count it all joy as we are the best of friends now because of all that we endured together that helped mold us. Working with mostly… Read More Broken Road

No marriage or relationship is all peaches & cream 100% of the time and I appreciate that! When we go through things; it’s an opportunity to come out of it stronger, more resilient and more aligned that when we went into the battle. On Jennifer Hudson’s self-titled album she has a song titled ” We… Read More We Gon’ Fight

Chocolate & I are very busy! We may get to see each other for an hour a day if we’re lucky and we do not even have children yet to steal that time away!(Well we do have a house full of little ones on the weekends) We’re so busy with our careers, goals and just… Read More Stolen Moments

Two young folks fell in love and were married on October 23, 1953, the would bore their first son named Donald in 1955 and adopt their second son Dexter in 1962. Those two people were some of my favorite people; George & Rachelene Phillips!- My grans! When I think about them or talk about them… Read More Happy 64th Anniversary!