Love & Marriage

Non-negotiables

I remember when Chocolate and I went through pre-marital counseling in 2010 and one week our homework assignment was to write down 3 things that the other person could do that would lead to a divorce. Well..honey, I filled in my 3 things quickly and added a couple more for bonus points! Chocolate struggled to… Read More Non-negotiables

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Giving Myself

On this anniversary eve. I think back to a time when I swore I was allergic to the term “submission”… I would get dizzy followed by a headache when it was mentioned, break out in a rash when it was suggested and not be able to sleep when it was told that I needed to… Read More Giving Myself

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Still

Tamia released this song titled “Still” in October 2004. Back then and even now the lyrics are as true as ever! I will type some lyrics in bold print and then add my comments in regular print. “Usually when two people are together For a long time things seem to change It’s been said that… Read More Still

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Curtis & Alicia

On this Harris wedding day: Lord, I ask that you send out your Spirit. Fill Alicia with your strength and your peace. Allow that spirit to wash over her and give her confidence, not in herself but in your spirit in her. Give her a tenderness that makes her great, a deep sense of understanding… Read More Curtis & Alicia

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Greatest Gift

Tonight’s post is inspired by Tamika Scott’s “Greatest Gift” song that was released in 2007 on the “Daddy’s Girl” soundtrack. I’ve loved this song since I first heard it. It definitely reminds me that Chocolate is a gift from heaven! God entrusted me with him and I need to honor and appreciate him….daily! Recently, I… Read More Greatest Gift

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Smile For Me!

Chocolate brings out the best in me! Look at my smile in the pic above! Then look at his! That’s my best friend right there! 😀 You and your husband should compliment one another, you should pick up where he falls short and vice versa. I work hard to be the best version of myself… Read More Smile For Me!

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I Got His Back!

I love these pics! They symbolize a key component to having a strong marriage! No matter what, we have each other’s back! Having each other’s back is not just standing up for your husband when the enemy attacks but protecting his emotional space. You have to become a student of his emotional reactions. Having your… Read More I Got His Back!

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I Am For You!

It’s almost our Anniversary! For the next 10 days leading up to our anniversary, we will share lots of love posts! Who is we, might you ask? My love has agreed to share some sentiment(okay, he was voluntold)! If there’s one thing other than my faith in God you will immediately know about me, its… Read More I Am For You!

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